My dear angel,

As I sit down to write this letter to you, my heart overflows with love, emotions, and an unwavering desire to help you understand and find peace during these challenging times. Life is full of unexpected twists and turns, and unfortunately, our small family has encountered one of them – my separation from your dad. It's a change none of us wished for, but sometimes you need to let go of the things which do not bring you joy and happiness. It is my utmost priority to assure you that, despite this change, my love for you remains unchanged.

First and foremost, I want you to know that your emotions are valid and deserve to be acknowledged. The news was not brought to you in the most empathetic way, but I want you to understand it is entirely normal to experience a rollercoaster of emotions during this period of adjustment. You may feel confused, angry, sad, or even blame yourself for our separation. Please remember, with absolute certainty, that our decision to part ways is an adult choice that has nothing to do with you. Sometimes, adults find that their paths have diverged, and continuing the relationship becomes unsustainable. I'll always be there for you and I'd like you to feel comfortable sharing any feelings and emotions which may arise in the process of this change.

Change can be difficult, but it is an inevitable part of life. Although change can be intimidating and scary, it also offers the opportunity for growth and self-discovery. I believe in your resilience, strength, and ability to adapt, and I will support you the best way I can throughout this journey. Even if my relationship with your father didn't work out, he'll continue being your dad and he has the possibility to be there for you as well. I'm here to listen to you and your needs when embarking on this new journey.

During times of transition, it is essential to discover healthy coping strategies that help you process your emotions. I'll be there for you to find activities that bring you joy, whether it's new hobbies, spending time with friends, or engaging in creative joy. It's my top priority to surround you with positive influences and seek positive experiences. If you feel like talking to your KiGa teacher, please do. You have my full support. Whatever you may need, I'm here for you!

My dear angel, life can be challenging, and it's during these trials that we discover our true strength. Remember that you are never alone in this journey. You have a vast network of family, friends, and loved ones who care deeply about you. Our family may have undergone a significant change, but our love for you remains unchanged.

Together, we will navigate this new chapter in our lives, supporting and uplifting each other every step of the way. Always keep your head held high, believe in yourself, and remember that you are cherished beyond measure.

With all my love,

Your mom