It's been a quiet month for my blog, but a very active one for me. I've spent most of the time traveling for both fun and work which helped me appreciate even more the peace I've created for myself at home.

Even in the busy schedule I've been into lately I've spent time reflecting on the changes around me - skipping the dancing scene, limiting some relationships, etc. Although I need to admit I haven't really burned any bridges I did limit my walks to those and it doesn't feel that scary anymore. On the contrary, it helped me free up mental space to focus on myself.

Here's a bit of revelation on the different aspects.

It's been a month and a half since I was out dancing here. While the first two weeks were terrible as I felt like an addict, now I'm actually fine with it. To my big surprise this week I've prioritized staying at home and relaxing over dancing (which hasn't happened to me before). Although it initially felt weird, I did appreciate a quiet "Netflix and chill" evening instead of the emotional rollercoaster at the dancing scene. Does that mean I won't go out dancing anymore? I doubt it. I enjoy it and don't plan on dumping it in general, but I'm so proud of overcoming the urge to go dancing at any cost.

Another success of the month was limiting some of my relationships for my own well-being. I've invested years in trying to influence someone's change, but I've been in a more zen mode lately not trying to change anyone who doesn't want to change. It's a pity to see some good relationships fade or become superficial for the lack of self-awareness or willingness to converse, but I guess we can't change the world, we can change only ourselves, so I've been living upon that mantra lately.

I've been proven that things do happen for a reason in my life so I face disappointment of the above changes as a positive sign that something better is coming my way and I need to trust the process and my intuition. Among the things I've learned in the past month were more auto control and for good or for bad  to treat people the way they treat me - if you're invested, I'm invested else we have a superficial relationship and everyone keeps with their life and beliefs.