One of the scariest things in life is to get out of your comfort zone. The paradox is though that this is one of the most rewarding experiences on the journey of self-growth.

I honestly hate going to restaurants on my own. And to be frank I never knew why as I truly enjoy being on my own. For a change today I did - I went for brunch alone. It was uncomfortable. I even tried to convince my mom to join me, but she wasn't up for it.

So there I was with my music and my breakfast, trying to overcome feeling "strange". I concentrated my thoughts on the music I was listening to and suddenly it didn't matter I'm on my own - it wasn't either scary or uncomfortable anymore. My face was brightened by a satisfactory smile and I was full of joy and peace.

For the past 10 years I've been accompanied everywhere I go and since I became a mother even the bathroom became less of a "me" time. Being insecure and/or psychologically abused I was afraid of being on my own. Afraid if I can make it on my own and even insignificant things like going to a restaurant alone felt confining. But when I took a break earlier this year and thought of all the things I already achieved on my own, I felt awakened. None of the beliefs which have been repeated to me over and over again were true. I felt strong and empowered to do and achieve all I need and want -starting with happiness.

Today I took a small step outside of my comfort zone, a small step towards a more mature and secure version of myself. And it felt so rewarding that even now writing about it I have a  smile on my face. Be brave is my today's takeaway. Be brave on the journey to self-growth and happiness! And don't look back, learn from the past and be a better version of yourself every day.